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Find a relevant thread or start your own! Before you can post or reply in these forums, please our online community and have a read of the community rules. Forum membership is open to anyone residing in Australia. I have many things going on in terms of mental and physical health but everyone lives in denial. No one wants to accept the truth.
Toughen up, be like everyone else. Make my own way in life. Get real. I recently asked my family if they would read a book on autism if I gave it to them to read, they said sure of course, they offered to buy the book. But more than 2 months later the book still sits there. They have said if I want a house to live in I have to isolate and not go outincluding to medical appointments. I wonder if anyone would even bother showing up to my funeral. Hi Ocean! Nice username, it reminds me of a really beautiful poem I read about an ocean explorer!! My heart breaks for you.
I relate to everything you wrote I also had no one to talk to, so paid a therapist, and in the end he just took my money and didn't really listen to me either no joke - he fell asleep quite regularly It's not your fault. I could be sensitive and say that some people are triggered by mental illness, and they shut down when they hear people talk about it. Or I could say more how I feel - which is that I'm so sorry that you are hearing those messages - that you need to just try harder etc, and that you don't have a right to your feelings. Anyone would be confused and stressed to have to lose their reuglar medical appointments, and then adapt to attending them online.
It is very hard when your needs aren't being met, there is so much pain and anxiety to have people around not believe and care. Have you tried calling Beyond Blue, Lifeline, or other phone lines? They were the first to believe me You are worth it and deserve to be heard. You matter and anyone who tells you otherwise, has issues themselves.
Reached a point where I started to really question 'Why don't people wonder about what really counts? They might spend their time wondering about what they're going to have for dinner but not wonder about what it would be like to walk a mile in someone else's shoes.
I typically find that truly empathetic people have great imaginations. They can easily imagine some of the struggles another may be facing, given their circumstance. They can even imagine that researching such struggle can give them further understanding. By the way, the 'toughen up' mantra is one that seriously annoys me. Typically, we'll have the less sensitive people tell us to toughen up. Such toughened up people don't realise the I don t understand why of being more sensitive.
I'm incredibly sensitive to many of the people around me in my life. This is exactly what helps me in understanding how they tick. Not hard to imagine that the most fulfilling relationships I have among all the people I know are with the most sensitive of people. While sensitivity can be a gift, it can be a gift we may often struggle with, especially when we need others to be more sensitive toward us. I find sometimes the way to get others to relate is to give them something relateable to work with.
Eg: If you said to a family member, who you wanted understanding from, 'I want you to think of a time when you really needed support from someone close and that person showed up for you. Now, I want you to imagine desperately needing that person in front of you but I said 'Bad luck, it's not going to happen! You just have to get over it! Unfortunately, some people's minds are so closed to possibility or wonder, so closed that they can't even see that this is an issue.
It takes an open mind to want to understand our own self and others. I must say, from what you've written, you do sound open minded, wonder ful and sensitive. Having these traits is what makes you truly brilliant - a light and example to others. up below for regular s filled with information, advice and support for you or your loved ones. You are currently: Home Seeking support Helping yourself and others Online forums. Welcome to the Healthy Families forums! Complete your profile the online community Community rules. Cancel The title field is required! Ocean explorer.
Get real I have 1 person who listens to me and that is my therapist and I have to pay her to listen. Sleepy21 Valued Contributor. Hi Ocean explorer I definitely hear your frustration. Stay in touch with us up below for regular s filled with information, advice and support for you or your loved ones. me up. Your session is about to expire. You have 2 minutes left before being logged out. Please select 'ok' to extend your session and prevent losing any content you are working on from being lost.I don t understand why
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